Experiencing Femdom

I never thought that I would put myself in a position for play before our relationship.

Over the holiday weekend I was invited over to a woman's house that I have been chatting with for some time, while I thought our time together would have been just us, I was not correct.

Arriving at Claire's door five minutes prior to the time I was told to be there, she greeted me with a warm smile, and a welcoming hug.
Stepping into the vestibule of her house we sat down on this entryway wooden bench.

She reminded me that I agreed that once I entered her home, as respect to her, I would remove all my clothing and then we would sit and discuss what she had on her mind.
She also told me then that she had invited friends over, with the thought that I, as many other men would not show, and She would never be waiting around for man.

I thought about everything and decided that yes I did remember agreeing that once I entered her home I would remove all my clothing. I did tell her that I was unsure how comfortable I was with the thought of other woman there. She stood up and very softly said that she understood and I should go, and refrain from ever contacting her again.

I almost left, but then I turned around and asked her if I could still come inside. She looked at me, took me by the hand, and brought me inside. As soon as the door closed, she sat on this wonderful red seat faced me and with her finger directed me to remove my clothing. Doing as I said I would I stood there completely naked, with my clothes in a pile around my feet. She handed me a garbage bag, told me to place my clothes inside and then in the bottom of the hall closet.

Completing that task I walked over to her, and again with her little finger pointed to the ground at her feet, she told me to kneel there with my legs slightly open to allow my genitals to hang naturally.

Firmly she slapped me across the face, so much that my head moved, and I felt the sting of her hand. Quietly she asked me what I was feeling, I responded: "honestly; confused, attracted, embarrassed but all at ease." She giggled and smiled then told me that during our conversations online that she had a good feeling about me, that I was serious in meeting a FemDom.

Today however as she did not think I was going to show or that I would make an excuse to come later, so she invited some of her friends over for lunch. So now she was going to give me two choices.

1.) The first choice was to go upstairs in her bedroom, and agree to be tied to the bed and left there until her friends left for the day, of course, with a but plug firmly in place.

2.) The second choice was that she would introduce as her friend and I would stay with them help serve lunch, and act in a very submissive way without letting anyway know about us.

While I did not want to be left alone upstairs for a undetermined amount of time, I choose #2 to be with the girls down stairs.

While we were getting ready for them, I remained bare and cooked and cleaned with out clothes.

I was told who everyone was, and how she thought I should behave.

As the time become close to the first arrival she pulled me by the ear into the kitchen, with my garage bag of clothes. She slapped my face two times in both directions, held my penis and balls in a tight grip and warned me to make sure she was not embarrassed by me, or she would remove my clothes in front of them all and spank me.

I nodded and told her I would behave as she asked.

The evening went well, from greeting them at the door, to helping and serving dinner, and snacks, to making them drinks as they sat and chatted.

They each asked how did she find such a wonderful man, one that does the cooking and serving, and takes care of her needs, instead of their men that sat on there behinds always being catered to.

She smiled and said I must be lucky that is all.

As they all left one by one, they each kissed me on the cheek and thanked me for being such a wonderful help.

Once they were all gone the house was almost spotless for I have been cleaning all night. She looked at me, and asked me why I was in clothing when I know I should not be. Immediately I stripped placing all my clothes in the garbage bag and back in the closet. Then I continued to clean the rest of the house.

I heard a knock on the door, and I was told to continue cleaning. While finishing cleaning, drying the dishes and putting them away I forgot about the knock I heard before. I turned off the light, opened the swinging door from the kitchen to the dinning room to see the Lady of the house, talking with one of her friends that was there for the dinner party. There I was standing there completely bare, as they were sitting there talking. Trying not to blush I politely asked both of them if they wanted a beverage? Claire, the Lady of the house, responded and told me that they would like red wine.

I turned around and went back to the kitchen to retrieve a bottle of red wine. Finding two glasses I returned to the dinning room in which they were sitting. As I approached the table to put the two glasses down, before I continued to uncork the wine; Claire's friend had her hands on my bottom and pulling on my sack. Looking in Claire's eyes I knew I was to behave.

I opened the wine, poured them half full glasses, and as I was about to step away from the table; Claire took hold of one of my hands and placed it on the table, and then the other hand. Both women then stood up and walked behind me. My hands were on the table, Claire pulled my waist out a bit more, she pushed the arch of my back down,turned my feet inward, which opened my butt cheeks, leaving me completely exposed.

Claire's friend slapped my ass once and then a couple more times. She asked, in an open question, is this why he is such a good man? Claire responded yes, and actually today is our first real life meeting.

Claire has spoken to me online for some time now. Yet today was the first day we met face to face.

Claire told her friend she was so impressed with my service, and attitude toward the whole afternoon and evening that she thought we would be spending more time together. This made me happy to hear.

There was another woman there that I did not know and still I was uncertain as to what was going to happen. Although, I did find out soon enough that Clair's friend was not knew to spanking and she was well versed in it.

I was spanked soundly by her, while Claire sat and watched, and sipped her wine. My bottom was on fire, my face was no longer blushing. I was truly accepting what was happening, and was doing my best to try and remain still.

As Claire was almost done with her wine, she stood up and told me to go stand in the corner, nose and head close to the wall. Keeping the bottom sticking out.

I could hear the Woman laughing and giggling. Soon after that Claire's friend walked up to me, and smacked my, already red, ass. Then whispered in my ear: "next week will be even better."

Hearing the door close, then Claire called me to the living room. As I walked gingerly into the room, she told me to lie down on the floor. Doing as told, then she stood over me then gracefully she kneeled down. I watched her panties stretch over her beautiful ass, and pull tight across her sex.

She asked me if my eyes were open I told her they were. Good, she proclaimed, look at my body! Look at how wonderful it is! And when I sit on your face, you will make sure to please me. As she said it my cock became hard. And she took notice!

She turned around, pulled off her panties and as she sat down her ass was over my nose, and she slid down to make sure my tongue could reach the area that she wanted me to pay close attention to.

Each time she moaned, she slapped my hard cock. As her moans became faster and harder, she turned to slapping my balls. Slapping them and hitting them harder and harder as she escalated in pleasure.

I could feel her getting close, and I worked like a machine to ensure her happiness. Finally she exploded in my mouth, her cum was overwhelming. Flowing down the side of my mouth and down my throat her juice ran. I worked determined to keep up and maintain catching all her juices.

She stayed in position for quiet some time, while I was still sucking softly, but with passion for her pleasure.

Once she was finished using me, she stood up and walked over and rested on the couch.

She looked at me as I lay there waiting her orders. She then spoke telling me that she wanted to see me again. I should go bring her my phone. As I went to the closet to retrieve the phone from the bag which held my belongings, she told me to bring the rest of my belongings as well. I did as she said.

I handed her my phone, thankfully I did not have a lock code on it, as she swiftly  programmed her phone number into it.

Then she took a picture of her front door and added it as her contact photo.
Once she handed me the phone back, she then told me how often I was to call and when I was to text her.

She then asked me if I was going to masturbate as soon as I was free to.
I replied: "Yes, Ma'am".
She nodded and told me to do it standing up in front or her.

As I started to masturbate; she paid me little attention. She put on her clothes, went to the kitchen and poured herself another glass of wine. She came back and checked on me and saw I was not quite ready yet. She continued to do some small things about the room. Then finally I was ready to release. I looked at her, and she knew, so she nodded and then said: "Yes, Come already!"

I was waiting for her approval, once I had it I came and it went all over my hand then down my wrist. She took my hand and placed it close to my mouth. She told me to lick it up. I did as I was told. I cleaned up every drop up.

As soon as I was finished, She told me to get dressed.
Once I was, She walked me to the door. Once there, she pointed her finger to floor and told me she was going to slap me. She gave me five good slaps across the face. Then told me to stand up with my back touching the door. As I did she brought her knee to my balls, and said because I was such a good boy she would not but I should know going forward that she can , and will when she desires it. I said: "Yes, I know."

Before she asked me to leave, she kissed me deeply.
She then unfastened my pants, left them drop to the floor, remove my underwear allowing them to drop to the floor. Then that quickly she raised her knee with great force, into my balls! As I gasped for air, she asked me when I wanted to come back. I replied I would like to stay...

By: Daddy's workshop

Finding your Queen

So you want Her to be your Queen, your Goddess, your Mistress...

She holds all these titles and more.
She is a Woman, She is a Lady, sometimes She is your Wife, and even a Mother...

What I hear so often is how men get it all wrong and they wonder why they can't keep a Woman's attention.

Let Me help you.

The Short List:

If you aren't romancing Her the way She needs it.

If you are not putting in the work to show Her you are worth Her time.

If you are not putting Her and Her needs first.

If you primarily, or often want to talk about your fantasies, your desires,  your  dreams.

If you are telling Her "No" without possibilities.

If you are doing any of these listed above.
You are doing it all wrong and have the wrong mindset!

Change the way you think!

Genuinely put Her first!

Buy the damn flowers, and gifts!

Make reservations for dinner!
To Her favorite place. 
Where She will be able to relax and feel like the Lady, the Queen, the Goddess She is!

Make it All about Her!
Ask what She wants and needs!

Learn to anticipate Her needs!

Stop being so selfish!

I  find most men primarily seek a Woman who will serve them, even though they claim they seek a FLR relationship. 

This behavior and way of thinking is not going to get you a Woman for a FLR.

When you put Her first and stop putting expectations on Her to serve your kinks and fantasies you will find She may be more interested in giving you what you desire.

I'm not saying to not share what you deeply need and desire. 

What I am saying is show Her respect and prove to Her your agenda is not selfish and self centered but genuinely about Her.

Any questions?
Ask in the comments below!

Helpful Tips & Training

By Mistress Kylie,

This post contains all of the ideas I have been able to come up with or find on the internet for female-dominant, male-submissive scenes…

You’ll probably notice that a lot of the ideas are designed for use over many days and are associated with orgasm control. This theme emerged over time because orgasm control is so effective at heightening male desire. We use this list in a very simple framework when setting up scenes. First she picks one or more of the ideas below (either by hand or randomly) and makes rules and tasks out of them. Then, after a few days of suffering through them and pushing me to peak sensitivity, the frequency of rules and tasks increases (over a weekend, for example) and she adapts punishments from the list (or comes up with them on her own) to achieve a good, intense session.

So anyway, I hope you enjoy them and they inspire ideas of your own! Please note, though, that we haven’t tried all of them. Some of them may not be practical.

1) Hold Pennies Against the Wall

This task is very hard: have him hold pennies against the wall using only his fingertips — one penny per finger. Depending on how you position his arms, this can be easy or extremely difficult. Arms spread wide apart forces him to get his face very close to the wall and will tire his arms quickly. Same with his hands being very high up.
For every penny that drops, punish him. Keep the punishments severe enough that he really fears dropping a penny.
You can also make him hold a penny against the wall using his erect cock. This will force him to keep himself hard.

2) Controlled Orgasms

Rules that control his orgasms are the most effective and psychologically impactful rules you can impose. These rules also become good excuses for torment and punishment. The mix of wanting to orgasm and facing big punishments feels very exciting.
Ideas for Normal Situations
  • He has to earn orgasms –> After you have had five orgasms, he gets one. –> He chooses to undergo a punishment or humiliation in order to flip a coin. Heads grants him an orgasm. Tails gets him another punishment or humiliation –> He earns points toward his next orgasm by acting the role of the “perfect slave.” These can only be earned by doing things for you without being asked, and acting the part perfectly. 20 points per orgasm.
  • He must ask permission prior to orgasm.
  • He is allowed to orgasm, but doing so carries an automatic set of punishments or humiliations.
  • Every time he orgasms, he owes you a favor.
  • You pretend to believe that he will take any opportunity to have an orgasm, and go to great lengths to prevent it (chastity belt, lots of restraints, careful supervision).
  • After every orgasm, he must collect his semen and do something embarrassing with it.
  • Come up with a “training regimen” to teach him to resist orgasm. He wears a chastity belt until he can resist your best efforts to get him to come while you reach two or three orgasms.
  • He is forbidden to clean up his own semen if it lands on him.
  • He gets a very short window every day to bring himself to orgasm while you watch. The chastity belt goes back on at the end whether he succeeds or not.
  • He gets a set limit of orgasms per week, which he can trade like currency. (His limit could be one. Or one every two weeks. Just because he can trade doesn’t mean he needs a lot of them.)
When a Slave’s Been Bad
  • Instead of a promised orgasm, he has to edge instead and thank you at the end as if he had an orgasm.
  • Lengthen the time he has to wear the chastity belt.
  • Treat pre-cum as orgasms for punishment purposes.
  • Warn him about a severe punishment if he orgasms, then tie him down and ride him until he does.
  • During the time when he is permitted to orgasm, position his body so that he can’t prevent himself from coming on himself.–>Make him put his knees on the wall behind him so that his cock points toward his face
  • If you are on top and he comes, keep going. The sensory overload is really overpowering. Even though it feels great, it’s a good “mean” thing to do to him.
Punishment Ideas

Remember that if your slave just had an orgasm without permission, he’s less in the mood than he was before. So instead of a regular punishment, pick one that is more severe, and execute it after he’s back in the mood (possibly the next day).
  • Make him write out a coupon for a certain number of days spent in a chastity belt. Spend it whenever you like. If he picks a number that is lower than what you picked, make him choose again and double his next result. (You can choose to have him give you a number of orgasms instead of a number of days.)
  • If he comes inside of you, sit on his chest while his semen drains out of you. Tie him up until it dries.
  • Chain a heavy weight to his chastity belt for a while, giving him something he either has to drag by his balls or deal with as he does other tasks for you.

3) Edging

Edging is the practice of bringing someone very close to the point of orgasm and then baking off. It’s usually done repeatedly, which both increases sexual need and results in the closest thing to multiple orgasms for a man. You can force your Slave to edge himself a few times to increase his sexual need. Or, you can do it to him and punish him if he orgasms. This will force him to resist orgasm.

4) Must Volunteer Information

This is similar to the “Must Not Lie” rule, but forces him to give you extra details whenever he’s answering a question. It can be very useful, because he has to actively think about what other secrets he can divulge. Use it to force him to keep you aware of the things he’s thinking about.

Ideas for Normal Situations
  • He must tell you when he’s horny
  • He must go into detail about what he wants sexually and why
  • Whenever he’s asked a question, he has to answer it, and then say “Also…” and add more details.
  • He must try to help you come up with more effective punishments, more humiliating tasks, and tell you how he might try to get out of obeying you
When a Slave’s Been Bad

Since you can’t read his mind, there’s no way to know if he’s holding something back. Rely on punishments if you find out that he didn’t tell you something.

Punishment Ideas

This is a rule that focuses on helplessness and humiliation. It’s also oral, since he has to tell you things. If you catch him leaving something out, punish him accordingly.
  • Make him write out several punishments and rank them according to desirability. Pick one or more for him to go through.
  • Make him tell you the most humiliating punishment he can think of. If he disobeys again, he has to go through with it.
  • Take away his right to speak for a while. Use a ball gag or tape if necessary.
  • Tell him to apologize. Don’t accept his apology until he recommends a good physical punishment or humiliation for you to employ.

5) Must Keep Legs Spread

Here is a very simple rule that is designed to keep things awkward for him and emphasize that his cock and balls belong to you. Usually the rule is that his legs can’t touch his cock or balls while you are in the room. Tell him that you want to see his balls hanging down.

Ideas for Normal Situations
  • He must keep his legs spread whenever you are within reach of his genitals
  • He must spread his legs on command
When a Slave’s Been Bad
  • He must keep his legs spread at all times, just in case.
  • Tie his legs up by the knees and spread them out. Then tease him by doing things to him that would make him want to close his legs
Punishment Ideas

Breaking this rule is all about not giving you access to his cock and balls, or about him not putting them on display for you. Punish him accordingly.
  • Tie his ankles to his wrists. Then tie his elbows to his knees. Last, pull his cock and balls behind his legs and tie his legs together so that they are trapped down by his butt. Now he gets to keep his legs closed, but you have full access to the genitals. Torture them for a while until he becomes more compliant.
  • Since he won’t put his genitals on display on his own, take away all his clothes and tie him up in a full-body rope harness. That way he can stay on display for you until you get tired of him.

6) Must Obey

Make it unconditional that he has to obey you, or anyone you specify, and punish him if he doesn’t do it promptly or well. This is one of those rules that you’ll talk about a lot, bringing it up to him to remind him that he doesn’t have a choice (or that you’ll punish him severely) if he doesn’t obey.

Ideas for Normal Situations
  • Have him acknowledge every command with “yes ma’am,” “yes, mistress,” or similar.
  • Give him a time limit to obey. For example, he might get punished for not jumping to do what you say within three seconds.
  • If he’s being forced to obey someone else, have him ask that person to give you an evaluation of how well he did.
  • Test him by giving him a list of things to do while you are away. Demand proof that he did them.
  • Come up with a word you can use to tell him that you are giving him an order while he’s in public so that others aren’t aware that you’re giving him a command to obey.
When a Slave’s Been Bad
  • Dramatically increase the number of things he has to do so that he’s kept very busy
  • Use toys, locks, and complicated tasks to make obeying very hard, such as –> Blindfolding him, then telling him to get a specific item that can only be identified by sight –> Chaining up his hands and then giving him something to type (with his tongue?) –> Give him an enema, and tell him he can’t release it until a task is done.
  • Give him tedious tasks, like writing out a sentence fifty times.
Punishment Ideas

Failure to obey you should carry the harshest punishments. The point of this game is to use punishments to force him to obey you. Therefore, the punishments have to be intense enough that doing humiliating and painful tasks is less miserable than going through with the punishments. Generally, you want to pick very painful or very humiliating punishments for this kind of error. Try to get him to call out in pain several times. He’s got a safe-word if you go too far.
  • Chain him up so he is completely immobile, then leave him like that for a while, maybe periodically torturing him.
  • Take away a sense or a privilege for a long time, such as use of his hands for 24 hours.
  • Add a couple extra rules to his list of rules
  • Make him pick a few punishments he would rather not be forced to undergo and then draw one randomly
  • Add a few days of slavery to his sentence

7) Must Become Hard

With this rule, the slave must force himself to become hard. This usually carries a time-limit, or is just a way for you to keep his hands on his cock, constantly fumbling with it. This has more to do with him having to make himself hard with you watching than it does with him getting hard. He is putting himself on display. Keep that in mind and see if you can think of ways to change things up.
Consider making him exaggerate the process so that it’s extra disruptive. Some ideas are to have him stretch out his cock, or use both hands, or kneel until it’s done.
This rule can be fun if he can’t use his hands to make himself hard. He’ll be left humping you or the furniture to comply.

Ideas for Normal Situations
  • When Mistress enters the room, slave has a certain amount of time to make himself hard.
  • On a schedule, such as once every three hours, slave has to make himself hard and present his cock for your inspection. If it’s not hard enough, or if it offends you in any way, he can be punished.
  • When seeing something arbitrary, such as a high heel, he has to become hard –> You might say, “You like skirts so much? Well, you’re going to show it!” And have him make himself hard every time he sees one on TV.
  • Upon hearing an arbitrary word, such as “songbird,” he has to make himself hard.
When a Slave’s Been Bad
  • Instead of just making himself hard once, he has to become hard, become soft, and become hard again –> Add a time-limit to complete this task to make it harder.
  • Make it more uncomfortable for him by keeping him from freeing his cock from his clothes or adjusting it while it’s getting hard.
  • Forbid him to use his hands to make himself hard or simply tie his hands out of reach of his cock. This will make it much tougher, but still possible.
  • Make him stay hard for five minutes before he can let go of his cock or stop stimulating it.
Punishment Ideas
  • If he fails to become hard for you in time (or if he forgets), change the rule so that he isn’t allowed to become hard for a day. See if you can catch him breaking that rule and slap a chastity belt on him.
  • The next time he has to be hard on command, put him in a lot of pain by slapping at his balls with a ruler or squeezing them (or similar) while he is trying to get hard.
  • Make him get hard without physical contact on his cock of any kind. (This might be very difficult.) Tie him up to be sure that he can’t move, of course.

8) Must Use Specific Names

This is a rule in every slave contract: that he must refer to you by a name of your choice. You can extend this to involve other women or other people. Common examples are:
  • Ma’am
  • Mistress
  • My Lady
  • Goddess
  • Madam
Ideas for Normal Situations
  • He isn’t allowed to use your name.
  • He has to answer “yes, <special name>” whenever you give a command
  • Must call other men and women “sir” or “ma’am,” even if he knows their names.
  • Must be sure to state your special name before asking any question
When a Slave’s Been Bad

Once again, this rule is so common that it’s almost always in a contract. I can’t think of tougher ways to implement it.

Punishment Ideas

This rule is a vocal one, so punishments can involve the mouth or speech. But don’t let that stop you from popping him in the testicles for forgetting to say your name before a question. Just be sure to catch him every time.
  • Make him wear a ball gag for thirty minutes every time he forgets
  • Tape his mouth shut when he forgets
  • Make him eat or drink something (like alcohol?) every time he messes up.
  • Place a clothes pin on his tongue for a while
  • Make him hold something with his mouth

9) Must Kiss

Slave must kiss some part of Mistress under some conditions. Type of kiss, duration, and number of kisses are up to you. You could, for example, make him practice kissing until he gets it exactly right.

Body Parts to Kiss
  • Vagina
  • Ass
  • Feet
  • Hand
  • Mouth
Ideas for Normal Situations
  • You can assign different body parts to kiss under different situations. If he forgets or gets one wrong, he gets punished. For example –> He must kiss a chosen body part when you enter the room –> He must kiss your clitoris after you orgasm –> When Waking –> Before Bed –> While showering, he must constantly kiss your vagina –> When seeing something arbitrary, such as a high heel –> Upon hearing an arbitrary word, such as “songbird.”
When a Slave’s Been Bad
  • He must practice kissing the chosen body part. The more disobedient he has been, the longer he has to practice.
  • Instead of a simple kiss, you can make a complicated series of kisses that he has to get right every time.
  • You can put a blindfold on him before he kisses. If he misses the spot, he gets punished.
Punishment Ideas

Kissing is an oral act, so you might want punishments to involve the mouth. Here are some ideas.
  • Leave him in a ball gag for a period of time for every mistake he makes with this rule.
  • Force him to wear bright red lipstick and gloss (make his lips kissable) to remind him what his duty is.
  • Take away the use of his hands (using ropes or chains) and let him use his mouth as hands for a while. When he has had enough, give him a test to see if he has learned his lesson.

10) Must Wear Collar and/or Cuffs

You require your slave to wear a collar, wrist cuffs, or ankle cuffs, or any combination both as a symbol that you own him and so that you can quickly restrain him at any time.
Since the collar and cuffs can’t be ignored, it will force him to remember the situation he’s in. You might want to avoid making him wear a collar while he sleeps, but that is the only one you need to be careful about. Cuffs while sleeping are just fine.

Ideas for Normal Situations
  • When he gets up or gets home from work, he must lock a collar and cuffs on himself. Only you can unlock them.
  • He has to lock chains that hang freely from his collar and/or cuffs.
  • He has to sleep with wrist and/or leg cuffs on.
  • He has to lock himself to the bed when he goes to sleep.
  • He has to lock something embarrassing to his collar.
When a Slave’s Been Bad
  • Not only does he have to lock cuffs on himself when he gets home, he has to lock his wrists together and his ankles together. You unlock him when you get home or by telling him where the key is by phone.
  • He must lock something very heavy to his ankle cuff. Like a locked bag of bricks, or a suitcase full of heavy items.
  • Make him lock himself to the toilet or to some other immovable object by running a chain behind it.
Punishment Ideas

Usually, the punishment comes from him unlocking the cuffs ahead of schedule. Sometimes this is necessary for safety or for other reasons (like a friend comes by), but you can still punish him for it. Simple restraint is perfect for that.
  • Run a rope or chain over a beam in the roof and raise his wrists as high as possible, maybe even making him stand on his toes. Tie it off so that he has to stand like that. Torture as desired. He won’t be able to stop you.
  • Before he goes to bed, make him wear short chains that either link his wrists, his ankles, or link a wrist to an ankle. You can also lock his wrists to a bondage belt.
  • Tie him in the frogtie and the chicken-wing tie at the same time. Torture him, make him walk on his knees and elbows, or just leave him stuck on the ground for a while.
  • Tie him spread-eagled on the bed. Use your imagination after that.

11) Flexibility, Strength, and Weight

I’ve combined three rules into one here. You can force him to reach (or maintain) a specific weight, achieve a certain degree of flexibility, or force him to gain strength. All of these require a test after a long period of time to see if he meets the goal. Failure needs to have a significant-enough punishment that it will push him to exercise and stretch for so many days to try to reach the goal.
It also gives you a convenient way to punish him in a way that will hurt for a long time. You can force him to do 100 situps, for example, and his ab muscles will ache for days. However, this can interfere with other games where you are pushing his body to its limits.

Ideas for Normal Situations
  • He has to lose a certain number of pounds by a certain date.
  • He has to become flexible enough to perform yoga moves of your choosing
  • He must become strong enough to hold something heavy for a period of time
When a Slave’s Been Bad
  • Force him to exercise in a tedious and very challenging way, such as crawling to every room in the house fifty times.
  • Force him to exercise until he is too exhausted to stop you from overpowering him
Punishment Ideas

These rules require him to exercise so often and for so long that you need to have punishments that will motivate him to work through the pain and boringness of exercise over a period of weeks. Pick punishments that make him pale, or that are worse than the exercise itself.
  • Add a period of slavery for every pound he fails to lose by the deadline, maybe a week per pound.
  • Put together a list of extreme hard labor that he must do if he fails to make his goal. Make him do the work naked, in chains, or while wearing uncomfortable toys like a large butt-plug.

12) May Not Flinch

Slave is punished for flinching. Pulling away counts as resistance, just like saying “no.” You have free reign over the slave’s body. You can even make him act like he is happy when you touch him. But he can never show you the disrespect of moving away when you want to touch him.

Ideas for Normal Situations
  • Once he realizes what you’re reaching for, he must try hard to put that body part in your easy reach, either by moving closer, removing clothes, or assuming an agreed-upon position (like putting his hands behind his head).
When a Slave’s Been Bad
  • Add a line in your notes or itinerary to try to get him to flinch a certain number of times each day. Once he passes the test, this rule can be dropped. But be convincing!
  • Tie his hands behind his back, and tie those ropes around his balls. Then try to get him to flinch. If he moves, he will yank on his balls. Train him to hold very still by trying to get him to flinch.
  • Add extra physical punishments or humiliation if you catch him flinching. (Two punishments instead of one, etc.)
Punishment Ideas
  • Tie his hands and legs very securely so that he can’t flinch. Then give him several reasons to flinch while he’s unable to. That way, he can tell the difference between when it is appropriate to flinch and when it isn’t.
  • Tie or wrap his hands (which are primarily used to protect body parts) in very awkward orientations so that they are not only useless, but uncomfortable or awkward. For example, tape his thumbs together and secure them to the back of his collar with a short rope.

13) May not Say a certain word

This is both a teasing rule and a very serious one. Consider these two situations:
  • He is not allowed to say “no” to anyone.
  • He is not allowed to say the word “is.”
In the first example, you make it clear that he’s expected to do whatever anyone asks. This is a straight-forward and common rule.
In the second example, you pick a common word and wait for him to forget the rule, giving you frequent opportunities to punish him.

Ideas for Normal Situations
  • He may not use the word “no.”
  • He may not use personal pronouns (me, my, our) and instead has to substitute “the slave” for them.
  • He may not speak unless addressed by someone (asked a question, etc.)
  • You force him to use an embarrassing word for his cock.
When a Slave’s Been Bad
  • He has a limit of words (or sentences) that he can say, after which he must be absolutely silent. (If you have a hard time keeping track, just count the number of times he starts talking.
  • He may only speak while wearing a gag or with something held in his mouth.
Punishment Ideas

This is simple: if he speaks out of turn, focus on oral punishments. Bad tastes, gags, extremely hot foods, and so on.
  • Gag him for a while, possibly sacrificing a meal.
  • Make him hold something in his mouth. (Your freshly-worn panties, a jalapeno, or a piece of soap.
  • Make him conduct a complicated task with his mouth (such as sorting the sex toys, sorting your panties by color, and so on.